I am sure that most of you seen the movie called ''friends with benefits''and enjoyed with Justin Tımberlake's company during the movie,
I also watched it as a soft romantic comedy movie for a quiet Sunday, however this movie has been talked a lot afterwards by all my friends which made me think later what is all about it?
Are we in need of our friends' sexual sympathy to feel good but doesn't feel attached or obliged,
are we more comfortable to have a friend in bed who you can trust,
are we really scared of love& passion so we find the easy way,
OR is it all about new age thing and comes with modern life styles,
Wasn't it the sex differenciates the lovers from friends? a friend means to share your good and bad times with you, support you, protect you, listen to you when you talk about rubbish, tell you the whole truth even if it hurts, give you a hug when you need most,
so when a boyfrined/ girlfriend comes to the scene there is a sexual desire between each other which is the only difference from friends,
Now we are in a world that people live an indivual lives, their main focus is always their career and do not want to give their freedom away as easy as others think! cyber world does only contributes to the loneliness....
I believe that friends with benefits comes to the scene at this point, almost a life saver without making an effort,
This also happens to people who are in relationship/ married but not happy with the ruitine of their lives and goes after forbidden excitement instead of working on their own relations to make better,
see, although the movie seemed a soft romantic comedy it was much more than that! :-)
have a nice Sunday!
